Tots & Tonic what is it?
Tots and Tonic is an event to help new mothers meet other neighborhood moms and get into the mix again. It is distinct from a playgroup in that it's a social event for new MOMS, where babies are welcome.
Tots 'n' Tonic is a great place to hear about local events, trade stories and information, make contacts, learn about mom-run businesses, all while trying a new restaurant.

history
Tots and Tonic developed during the year after my son was born. I met a great group of new moms who all went to the same dog park with their dogs. We started meeting at each other houses for lunch. I found that I looked forward to the companionship of the women. We shared baby stories and information, but we also talked about our present or former jobs and other interests.
The playgroups were an invaluable antidote to the isolation of having a newborn in the city, great for the babies, and an important affirmation of the individuals we were in addition to being moms.
With a minor baby boom going on and so many interesting moms facing the same difficulties of urban mom-hood, I thought this would be an experience that could be beneficial to moms throughout the city.

what's in the name
The name Tots & Tonic comes from a San Francisco group that began with parents inviting each other over for drinks. Matt Gordon, a professional name maker, coined the term and is amused at the popularity the name has achieved on the East Coast.

Home About Where & When Media Photos Connect Links